Ramblings on Natural Environments

I'm wondering how those of you who are licensed get away with allowing "risky" explorations like skating, bike riding, and playing with loose lumber! On one occasion when I was attempting to get licensed I was chewed out for allowing a child to climb a tree. He was more than three feet high, with only grass underneath. Grass is not an appropriate surface for climbing structures, which now apparently includes trees. I don't want to know what she would have thought about letting a four-year-old haul around a two-by-four. I've been trying to replace the Little Tikes play materials with more natural explorations. I just added a couple of tree stumps in addition to a large lawn and several smallish trees, which the children DO climb. I would love to find some tires and boards! Maybe I need to try free cycle! I want to add a butterfly garden, but haven't yet managed to convince my parents to give me a plot of ground (I am working out of their basement & using their backyard). I have a very small area (about 300 square feet) in between two outer buildings which is "mine", the rest of the yard I can use as long as we don't kill the grass (so no permanent structures, but I think tires & boards would be okay!). I also wish we had space for riding bikes, but we only have one small section of cement and the only blacktop we have is a small private lane. I've drawn the line at allowing them to ride bikes there. The neighbors are good at watching out for kids, but the Fed-Ex guy isn't! After reading Leslie's post about campfires and jewels, I wish we had more dirt! We do have a sandbox & I fill plastic tubs with soil and water, but it's just not the same. As a child my backyard was a child's wonderland (it was actually described that way in a homestudy my parents had done). I had access to a huge box of sand and a hose. I spent hours flooding the sandbox, digging and burying things, and making a huge mess. Unfortunately, that sand box is now covered by cement. The make-shift garden plots and the old hand pump where I got water for stirring "chocolate milk" for my younger brother to drink have been covered with manicured grass and carefully thought out arrangements of environmentally appropriate shrubs and flowers. The lilac bushes were torn out to make room for a private driveway. Heaven forbid anyone find a dandelion, there goes my hours picking leaves and inventing various salads. Remembering how I used to show up at preschool with bottles full of pill bugs, I took the kids for a "bug hunt" the other day and all we managed to find were a few spiders. I'm having to import caterpillars and ladybugs for our upcoming project on insects. And the huge trees I used to climb (and yes, fall out of--once resulting in a trip to the hospital, though I never broke a bone) were cut down years ago. Not to mention going from a huge yard with rabbits and ducks and nearly an acre to roam with cousins and grandparents in the backyard, to five homes on the same space, with neighbors who are virtual strangers, all in the name of "progress". And our yard is still significantly larger than the new homes that are being put in, so close together that you can watch your neighbor's TV while sitting in your own living room. I'm only 25 years old. If this much has changed in my relatively short lifetime, how much more limited are my children's experiences with the natural world going to be???? I would love to buy a few acres in the middle of nowhere, but that's not going to happen on an early childhood educator's salary!